My almost 4 year old is at an age where there are rewards and consequences for her behavior and actions. For the past few months, I found myself becoming increasingly frustrated with her behavior and her tantrums, but in the same token, I know she is a good kid. She is smart, caring, and loves those around her. Just don't say the word "no" to her. I know that NO child likes to hear the word no, I don't even like that word! But, she has to learn ...